Anonymous: I don't know how this is going to sound to you but boys aren't confusing at all. If they like you, they will tell you so. If they can't even ask for your phone number then you should forget about him before you start to feel something. I'm getting the vibe he just wants to get some/make out and that you will be willing to give that to him. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh bb but the more you think about it the more you may get hurt
It doesn’t sound harsh at all! It’s really weird but after the first time we kissed I was so confused because he acted really nice and everything but didn’t approach me or anything, and the second time he basically asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and at that moment something sort of ‘switched’ in my head and I was like okay well then this is just for fun.. so I know that that’s probably all he wants from me, but still there is a tiny spark of hope somewhere in the back of my head that eventually he will start to like me, idk it’s weird and it’s just how a girls’ brain works probably :) but thank you for being so honest! Xx
in February I kissed this guy that I sort of knew at a party, after that we saw eachother a lot during college and stuff but apart from saying hi and smiling at eachother and just casual random conversations nothing happened.. but last weekend at another party we kissed again, full make out session included haha. this week we saw eachother only once in a big crowd and it was just the usual smile and ‘hi’ from him, we haven’t exchanged phone numbers and stuff and right now I’m a bit confused like why would he kiss me again, because he knows I’m willing to kiss him or because he might sort of like me?
ah boys are confusing.
